daYs oF my LiFe

Saturday, May 17, 2008

Mssing those days...

Its been long since i blogged and sister has been reading my entries over and over again for AGES!.. well.. i was reading my below entry.. and i kinda missed those days with sarah... although i shouldnt... i wonder y.. but i doubt she'll ever see this entry... Well... I guess i'm only human.. ppl forgive & Forget.. I called her a few days back.. cuz unknowingly.. she has been appearing in my dreams out of no where... for not much reasons.. and the dreams keeps me bothered and wondering.. so.. if u see this.. maybe u wanna return my call. :)

And here the story ends.
9:21 PM

Tuesday, October 30, 2007

HappY Halloween! With ULu PanDan WhiskEy

Its Been Long Since I Partied... :):):) Ulu PanDan WhisKey Had made all of us kinda Lost our minds...

And here the story ends.
12:33 AM

Sunday, October 21, 2007

If I could Live On LoVing YoU

WIll it come true?

And here the story ends.
2:41 AM

Everyday is a Gift

A Story to Live ByBy Ann Wells (Los Angeles Times)
My brother-in-law opened the bottom drawer of my sister's bureau and lifted out a tissue-wrapped package. 'This,' he said, 'is not a slip. This is lingerie.' He discarded the tissue and handed the slip. It was exquisite; silk, handmade and trimmed with a cobweb of lace. The price tag with an astronomical figure on itwas still attached. 'Jan bought this the first time we went to New York, at least 8 or 9 years ago. She never wore it. She was saving it for a special occasion. Well, I guess this is the occasion.'
He took the slip from me and put it on the bed with the other clothes we weretaking to the mortician. He hands lingered on the silk material for a moment,then he slammed the drawer shut and turned to me 'Don't ever save anything for aspecial occasion. Every day you're alive is a special occasion.' I remembered those words through the funeral and the days that followed when I helped him and my niece attend to all the sad chores that follow an unexpected death. I thought about them on the plane returning to California from the Midwest where my sister's family lives. I though about all the things that she hadn't seen or heard or done. I though about the things that she had done without realizing that they were special.
I'm still thinking about his words, and they've changed my life. I'm reading more and dusting less. I'm sitting on the deck and admiring the view withoutfussing about the weeds in the garden. I'm spending more time with my family and friends and less time in committee meetings. Whenever possible, life should be a pattern of experience to savor, not endure. I'm trying to recognize these moments now and cherish them. I'm not "saving" anything; we use our good china and crystal for every special event - such as losing a pound, getting the sink unstopped, the first camellia blossom. I wear my good blazer to the market if I like it. My theory is if I look prosperous, I can shell out $28.49 for one small bag of groceries without wincing. I'm not saving my good perfume for special parties; clerks in hardware stores and tellers in banks have noses that function as well as my party-going friends.
"Someday" and "one of these days" are losing their grip on my vocabulary. If it's worth seeing or hearing or doing, I want to see and hear and do it now.
I'm not sure what my sister would've done had she known that she wouldn't be here for the tomorrow we all take for granted. I think she would have called family members and a few close friends. She might have called a few former friends to apologize and mend fences for past squabbles. I like to think she would have gone out for a Chinese dinner, her favorite food. I'm guessing -I'll never know. It's those little things left undone that would make me angry if I knew that my hours were limited. Angry because I put off seeing good friends whom I was going to get in touch with - someday. Angry because I hadn't written certain letters that I intended to write - one of these days. Angry and sorry that I didn't tell my husband and daughter often enoughhow much I truly love them.
I'm trying very hard not to put off, hold back, or save anything that would add laughter and luster to our lives. And every morning when I open my eyes, I tell myself that it is special. Every day, every minute, every breath truly is a gift from God.

And here the story ends.
1:50 AM

Wednesday, October 17, 2007

Snowy's HOME!!

Snowy's finally Home!! But i've yet to take a picture with him... he hasn't been well the past few days.. but he is better now.. well at least we've got him license under our name.. i feel so sad to see him this way.. i wanna feed him well and make sure he grows so so FAT!!... haha.. he has shrunk..... i wanna bring him out to play one day! Ever since this episode, i'm sure i'll treasue him so much more.. Thank You dearie.. for helping me solve this whole issue.. wat would i be without u....

And here the story ends.
12:10 AM

Tuesday, October 09, 2007

I mIss U

Snowy.. i miss u..its been 4 days i realli wonder how u r doing... and i hope u'll really be back home tmr.. I MISSS U so so so much.. and my tears have already run dry....

And here the story ends.
11:59 PM

Monday, September 24, 2007

Living a Happier Life

I am reading this book now.. and its really good.. after reading it u'll be much happier and contented with wat u have.. trust me :) thank You Dennis for lending me such an awesome book.. i'll consider buying it myself. and maybe other books from Matt & Luke.. then i'll lend u!

And here the story ends.
11:27 PM

Sunday, September 23, 2007

With Thanks...

Its was a pleasant Surprise u gave me.. and i thank you for every little thing that you did.. you made my day.

And here the story ends.
8:40 AM

Wednesday, September 19, 2007

Keeping it going...

I thought this is realli meaningful....

The foundation stone. Relationships are like plants. They need to be nurtured with love, care and understanding. You need to work at it on a regular basis and learn the skills needed to make it grow. Those who take relationships for granted and do not take the time to do the maintenance will find a once beautiful relationship will wilt and die. Good communication is the foundation stone of any healthy relationship but there must also be lashings of mutual respect and commitment to each other.Trust each other You must learn to share your thoughts and feelings with your partner,even if they are unpleasant. Very often the fear of offending your partner makes you keep quiet, and you choose to suffer in silence. Not only doing an injustice to you but also sowing the seeds of unhappiness and mistrust.You must trust each other. Suspicion breeds hate, jealousy and sorrow. Often, these feelings get out of control, and destroy relationships. The best way to keep the flame of trust shining bright is to confide in your partner. It removes mistrust, and does not allow misunderstandings to grow. It pays to be honest with each other. Don’t hesitate to brush unpleasant issues under the carpet. If you have done a wrong, let your partner know. You will both feel stronger to face the next challenge. Balanced relationship Being a part of the ‘couple’ should not affect the sense of self. Establishing boundaries where needed helps to maintain a balanced relationship and allows each to become fulfilled. Keep your own hobbies and pastimes but remember to share an interest in what your partner does as well. You are two separate entities with often-differing likes, dislikes, traits and interest. Respecting and allowing for these differences is essential for reducing conflict.“Warts and All”Love brings along many expectations that need to be met. Every partner expects something from the other. But the expectations must be realistic and achievable. If both partners understand that that neither of them is perfect and accept each other “Warts and All” It will help them enjoy an equitably and contented life together.

There are three stages in every relationship.The first is attraction. When you are first attracted to a person, you wish to know more about them, there likes, dislikes, interests etc. Then you gather courage to make your first move like asking to come for a movie, dance or dinner. Both partners often feeling embarrassed and awkward but probably mostly feeling over come with wonderful feelings about your newfound love.

The second is the testing stage. This is the stage when the relationship starts blooming. You are both learning more about each other. If you hide your emotions or are deceitful in any way at this stage, then you can be sure that you are building weak foundations. The relationship any well seem to flourish for a while but that weakness will undermine all the good work you do and it will fail. Honesty dealt with in a tender manner will be a strong bond that will help to hold you together.

The third is the conflict stage. As the relationship progresses and you have been together some time there will be conflicts and disagreements. Those who are able to handle these conflicts with trust and equanimity will be able to keep the relationship going where others would simply flounder. So, learn to handle conflicts and learn form all the ups and downs. A fine achievement Because you have been together for a long time you may well feel your partner takes you for granted or that you are in a rut. The positive side of that coin is you are in a comfortable relationship were you have mutual respect for each other. It may not have the zest and excitement of a new relationship but you have learned to live in contentment with another. This really is a fine achievement and so worthy of praise. It has the reward of a long lasting loving relationship that can only be coveted by many. Allow your partner just to be human not some super-person who you expect must always get it right. If you allow them that courtesy they might then do the same for you!

Article Source: http://www.articlemotron.com

And here the story ends.
11:05 PM

Tuesday, September 18, 2007

After 876 days...

When i was questioned.. i tried so hard to ans.. out of 6, i only had 2 rite.. which means.. i failed the test.. i failed terribly.. I felt like an imbecile.. i felt i was fooled.. and its sad to know that only 876 days later.. i dun know u at all.. juZ one last obstacle and i tot we had it all in our hands.. but i guess.. i failed.. i failed this time.. i feel numb.. cuZ it hurts so much that i cant feel anything at all...

And here the story ends.
12:05 AM